What type of vibrator should I buy?

If you're in the market for a vibrator, you have more options that if you were shopping for a new pair of jeans.

Each vibrator will have different features and options you should consider in order to find the best fit.

The first thing to consider is what type of stimulation you're looking for. There are rounder and flatter vibrators meant to stimulate the clitoris, longer rod vibrators that can be used on the clitoris or in the vagina, and vibrators like "the rabbit" that go in the vagina and stimulate the clitoris at the same time. From there, decide how big of a vibrator you want.

Do you want something smaller and more discrete (possibly good if you're a first time owner)? Or are you looking for something big that's shaped like a penis or has many different gadgets and features (possibly better for a more seasoned pro)?

Then, it’s just a matter of how much money you're willing to spend and what color you want … and there you have it ladies, the vibrator that's perfect for you!

Here are some good picks, all available at vibrators.com: For double-duty action: The “rabbit” ($32.99); for newbies: “My First Vibrator”: ($19.99); for clitoral only: the “Hitachi Magic Wand” ($54.99).

What to present? Buy vibrator

Have you ever felt lost when buying a gift for a special person, whether it's for a birthday, anniversary or even as a wedding present, trying to find something that is original an they could actually make use of isn't easy. Would you consider yourself sexually open enough to buy a sex toy as a gift and more important would your close friend be open enough to receive it.

First you need to determine what type of adult toy your friend might prefer. Think of any bedtime secrets she might have disclosed to you in private, try not to look at it as what you like as naturally it is your friends enjoyment that counts. The obvious choice would be a vibrator. There are literally thousands of vibrators on the market so where do you start?

While there are some vibrators that are purely designed to stimulate multiple erogenous zones, some women prefer multiple vibrators with each vibrator specializing in one area.

It's a good idea to pick a toy with variable speeds, experiment on what amount of vibration is best. A beginner should start with an average size vibrator, but if you are more experienced and prefer a deeper penetration then there are some very large sex toys out there.

Rabbit vibrators are designed with two small prongs that tickle the clitoris. The toy has been made famous after being featured on sex and the city and is definitely a favourite amongst women. The rabbit ears vibrate at high speed over the clitoris flicking like a tongue while the phallus vibrates thrusts and rotates.

There is also a large choice of realistic vibrators that are modelled and scaled to an actual penis, made of cyber skin material that simulates the texture of the real thing. If you are having a horney moment and looking for a bit of privacy then try one of the wide range of waterproof vibrators to use in your bathroom. Amongst the most popular is the I rub my duckie.

Obviously this is just a small section of sex toys available but certainly a vibrator is an excellent choice when buying that gift that your close friend would definitely appreciate.

Using a vibrator on him

While a vibrator is stimulating when used on a man, it's much less so than for a woman. He will probably want a faster speed from the start.

A light touch is unlikely to be the best - firmly pressing the vibrator to the penis will be more stimulating. Use a lubricant and focus on the glans, especially the underside.

Try moving the vibrator in small circles or in small back and forth strokes. You may or may not be able to cause him to climax with the vibrator alone - if not, try using it as a part of manual or oral play or as foreplay to intercourse.

The other way to use the vibrator for his enjoyment is to have him watch you use it on yourself. Most men find this extremely arousing, and it can also be very instructive for them.

Shanes World Hottie Vibrator

The Hottie from the Shane World range claims to be like your boyfriend but better!

It is realistic in shape and has a veined shaft that ends with a bulbous base with tiny nodules designed to tease and tantalize.

It is powerful with multi speed controls and is fully waterproof so you can even make waves in the bath or shower.